超完美男人

他选择了她，是因为,在他看来生活有了她会更美好。

兰花很美，一般的女子看到花，即使不是明显的欢喜，起码不至于厌恶。

兰花能征服所有的女人？

也许能征服她的，不是那朵兰花，而是一个微妙的开始，爱情美好地萌芽。

在他看来生活有了她，会更美好。

生活与爱始终需要自己尝试、进取、取舍、磨合，而不是把一个人的出现当做契机。

当我足够好，才会遇见你。

兰花能征服所有的女人。

吐气如兰,气质似竹,心静如水,才情象海。

可是，新鲜感只会保持一天，在那之后，他和她只是普通人。

想看《The Perfect Man》，完全是因为Chris Noth——Mr Big，他演完美男人真是太适合了！

看完以后，感觉也不错，挺温馨的。

虽然情节摆脱不了一般的套路而且略显牵强。

但是我觉得电影本身还是可以的。

至少在无聊的时候吃着零食看还是不错的。

可以看到母女两人的美好感情。

可以看duff的囧事。

The movie centers around a single-parent family whose members try to seek love in the relatively alienated society. All through the film does one sense the “painful pleasure”, the same way as Hemingway’s heroes share “despairing courage”. It’s painful, because single-parent families do suffer a lot, especially the lack of love and fun of a traditional nuclear family. To go back to the film, the children, be they young or old, have to adapt themselves to new environment every time they move around. The children are innocent, but they seem to be reconciled to reality, whether they don’t want to lose friends, or have to repeatedly outperform themselves in order to be recognized. Even the mother in the film suffers tremendously. Her unhappiness and depression cast a shadow on other family members in turn. On the other hand, we can still get pleasure from watching this movie, for it does have a happy ending. The happy ending comes from the fact that all family members don’t los e faith, no matter how indifferent the world is towards them, and the “perfect man” isn’t un unreal thing. The shining point in the film is its conceptions. E-mail, one of the means for communication in the modern world which has been condemned since its appearance, serves as a thread for the film and shows its positive aspects for interpersonal relationship. In the movie, for instance, the Father-and -Mother relationship improves thanks to the e-mail. What else can be seen is men’s inability and impotency to deal with each other, which accords with the characteristics of post-modernism or modernism. The most interesting or rather touching plot in the film is when the truth comes out, mother forgives father as expected, but mother follows suits by pretending to be somebody else behind helping her daughter find the perfect man, which is unexpected. The title of the film has many interpretations. Firstly, on the surface, the perfect man is the one found by daughter to be exactly the man for mother. Because of his same interest with mother and his “magic power” to understand mother, he is referred to as the perfect man. Secondly, the daughter, who understands mother’s need and agony, turns out to be the perfect man. In this sense, the perfect man never exists but is made up by the “perfect” daughter. Thirdly, regardless of daughter’s efforts and all chance encounters, the perfect man in reality is the one who is around us but hasn’t been noticed by us. This notion is both encouraging and despairing, for we can be sure that there is a right man or woman for us, but it seems to be difficult to recognize him or her. From the movie, the playwriter’s attitudes towards love is traceable as well. The contrasts between the perfect man and the colleague (baker) serve as a good example. Like knows alike. The perfect man likes doing word puzzles and watching the moon, as mother does, and he picks the right music and flowers which favor mother very much. On the contrary, despite great love for mother, the colleague doesn’t know or will never know mother’s cup of tea. In the end, the playwriter makes mother choose the perfect man over the colleague, from which we can see the perfect man in the mind of the playwriter is the one who can read one’s heart. There are also a few minor flaws in the film. For example, the chance encounter between the daughter and the perfect man is a really made-up plot; without her classmate, they wouldn’t have met each other. Besides, such minor characters as the classmate is really minor, who isn’t fully portrayed as a human being. What’s more, the ending is too perfect to believe, with the two pairs coming together. All in all, it’s a good film. It’s a film giving account of our life in the solitary society and offering a way out to a certain degree.

已经很少会感动了，可是还是被赚了眼泪。

因为发现要理解他人多么重要。

生活，给了我们很多。

好的，不好的。

其实，大家都在努力。

可是一切都不能预演，谁也不知道自己这样的决定一定是好是坏，因为，所有的一切都是相对的 。

虽然理性的选择很正确，可是少了人的感觉一切又都是那么没有必要。

在心里坚定着美好，把自己定义在美好当中又是多么重要。

变得刻薄和尖酸很久了，明明是自己不喜欢的 ，却还是会去做。

因为，把自己的主动权全部放弃了。

让别人，让环境，让表面上不好的东西欺骗了自己，掩盖了自己，也那么大的影响了自己。

其实，不只是单亲，每个人心里都一样，只是在单亲的背景里表现的那么强烈。

我不是单亲家庭，我有身体健康的父母，可是也是一样。

常常因为他们的错误对我有那么坏的影响。

也常常因为他们的错误感觉坚持不下去。

可是，他们也是懵懂第一次走在森林的孩子，他们也常常是第一次碰到这样那样的问题，要自己亲自自己独立去面对和解决，也是一样去承担结果。

可是他们也为我们付出了很多，放弃了很多，也坚持了很多。

放下心里的不开心和所有对别人的要求。

即使放不下至少也要知道：大家都很努力了，用微笑去鼓励他们吧。

不论是谁电影，选择的出发点很好啊。。

又让自己想要做回美好的自己。

别人的选择，所产生的结果别人负责。

自己选择的结果自己负责。。

所以，我选择自己都喜欢的自己。。

也许，我不能总是做好，可是，我是这样告诉自己的。。。

要加上这句：Love is friendship on fire.

令我觉得震惊的是这位母亲,她可以为了自己的小孩子而放弃理想,却不能体谅一直被迫搬迁的女儿的无奈和悲伤?女儿可以为了让母亲改变,编造了谎言,可是在她发现真的有一个很不错的男人的时候,鼓起勇气为母亲争取幸福.相对来说,我觉得母亲要更自私一些.可能也是我现在只是作为一个女儿的立场存活着.我们总是把母亲的爱想象的很伟大,然后把这种伟大加诸在每一个母亲的身上,使这种品格成为评价母亲的标准.但是,是否作为一个母亲,就一定要有奉献一切的精神?如果我们这样界定的话,那么我们是否把一种超常的牺牲,当作了一种理所当然的付出呢?我们要求母亲的,与要求别人的,为什么会有那么大的差距呢?

剧情头重脚轻。

最终没有因为一个男人的出现而改变了生活的格局，而是妈妈先做出了自我改变，尽管变化的过程过于轻易和生硬。

生活与爱始终需要自己尝试、进取、取舍、磨合，而不是把一个人的出现当做契机。

女孩的爱情浪漫却青涩，母亲的爱情更是假的可以.唯有对窗台印象深刻，能上能下，夜晚赏月的好去处。

进一步，发现了兰花的美。

《超完美男人》讲述的是一段关于爱情、渴望和逃避的幽默故事，还向人们展示出如果好的意图出现偏差，努力的结果往往也会出现偏离。

影片故事的主要层面是寻找完美伴侣的爱情心态，而从另外的层面讲，影片爱情故事的背后，还潜藏着家庭关系的描写，这种母女间的微妙心理真实自然，无疑为影片的表现力增色不少。

在影片开头，汉密尔顿母女三人正在进行另一次旅行，奔向又一座陌生的城市布鲁克林，渴望重新开始生活的简将陌生之地看作希望的所在，而这旅行不仅是身体的旅程，更是心灵之旅。

她们要在生活中学会家庭关系和爱情关系的维系方法。

很多次，霍莉都有种自己在照料养育母亲的错觉，因为她看到自己的母亲如小女孩般迫切的希望远离过往的迷失和错误，只会逃避而从不思考自己的教训，简和霍莉之间的母女关系总在游移变换，相当错综复杂。

虽然霍莉爱简，但对简的很多生活方式实在感到失望。

至于霍莉捏造的谎言，也不尽然只为简的快乐，还在为霍莉自己寻找梦寐以求的安全感。

这种对人物心理的多层面描写，也正是这部爱情喜剧的难得之处。

推荐!尤其是那些单身的妈妈或者是单亲家庭的子女们,有空看看吧,看完大家就都互相理解了.其他的不说了,也说不出来什么.总之,亲情总是那么让人感动!

年轻,一切都显得不重要,为了妈妈,撒谎也是好的,站在妈妈或是孩子的角度想一下,一切都变的轻松,无关紧要了.向所有的,坚强的单身妈妈致敬.